I’ve had the opportunity in my life to travel all over, and I take a lot of pleasure away from meeting new and interesting people. Let me qualify that, because in my experience, it’s nearly impossible to meet an uninteresting person, especially if you are willing to take a moment or two to talk with or just take a good look at the person standing right in front of you. This can apply as well to loved ones and business associates as to total strangers. Making it a habit, working for that little extra moment of connection, however brief, can make all of the difference. Who knows? It might lead to a lifelong friendship (or, alternatively, keep you out of situations that can lead to loads of trouble). Or it could just make your day.

    You can train yourself to create mostly positive outcomes on a daily basis in your life by developing good habits. How often have you walked away from some sort of minor catastrophe, disaster or accident, in the kitchen or otherwise, and said, “I don’t know what I was thinking…” Usually, that sentiment hits the nail right on the head. We are what we do and we are what we think every day. And trouble, when it comes, is too often brought on by failing to listen to the little voice each of us has inside our heads. It’s usually only later that we realize we had the chance to avoid a mishap which in hindsight often looked like a locomotive barreling straight at you down the tracks.

    Good cooking is the embodiment of good habits. Skills are developed and nurtured by two things: repetition and good outcomes. Practice makes perfect because it opens neural pathways so that our muscles and brains understand what we’re asking them to do at a given moment. Coaches call this “muscle memory,” but I think it probably has as much to do with building a link of confidence between intention and ability. In other words, I think you can be told that you can do something, but when you actually think about the steps involved and then take it a step further by experiencing what it feels like to go through the motions, the process is made “more real.” Good outcomes, of course, reinforce this training with sensations of satisfaction and pleasure. It’s a winning combination. I’ve heard it said that it takes 21 repetitions to build a habit. It must follow that if you practice a technique a million times, it becomes second nature.

    I love the phrase, “second nature.” Our native talents and abilities, our gender, our body types, the color of our eyes, certain dispositions of temperament are given to us by nature. We can take these gifts and use them to most effectively serve ourselves and others by building on them as the foundation for our better selves.

    Even the seemingly most insignificant habits, if they are good ones and are practiced with the best intentions over time, can make all of the difference. When I first hired “Little George” as a chef in the hotel I was running at the time, I didn’t actually have a job opening for him. But he dazzled me with his shoes. Sure, his resume told me he was a good cook, but I noticed immediately that his shoes were buffed to a high gloss in strict military fashion. To me, that spoke volumes. I knew I could work with him because great work in the kitchen is nothing if it isn’t based on excellence in the details. (George’s attention to detail is also one of the reasons why he makes the best crab cakes in the world!) He ended up staying with me for eleven action-packed years.

    Good habits start early. If you are at school (or even if your school days are far behind you), don’t squander the opportunity to get things done. It’s usually the case that in the time you spend trying to figure out all of the ways to avoid doing a chore, you could get it done and be well on to the next thing. When I was a young man at school, I had a lot of poor study and schoolwork habits that were largely based on my nature. I liked to have fun and play at sports and, frankly, was never crazy about being told what to do. One of my instructors, David Bodfish, took me aside and made me realize that I had other options. By not applying myself and building good habits, I wasn’t pulling the wool over my teacher’s eyes; I was cheating myself and being of no good use to anybody. Soon after, I joined the Navy and they really drove the point home. Good habits in the military not only help you get along with your mates and secure advancement, but are designed to keep you from getting shot or having your boat sunk.

    Take pleasure in a job well done, no matter how small, and you’ll find your day is suddenly filled with innumerable tiny victories.

    If you decide that you want to learn to be a scratch cook, you can do it easily, by training yourself to take a few small, extra steps Repeat these steps and they’ll become a habit you can rely on. The positive outcome will be better, more delicious and healthier food on your table.

    While we are on the subject of school days (and school daze), a simple place to start is with a soup many people associate with school years (next to a nice toasted cheese sandwich). Also are some recipes for hors d’oeuvres which make one realize the beauty in their detail. Enjoy.

    Appetizer: Soup

    SUMMER TOMATO SOUP

    Yield: 4 servings

    Ingredients
    1 tablespoon olive oil
    1 large onion, chopped
    1 carrot, chopped
    2¼ pounds vine ripened tomatoes, cored and quartered
    2 garlic cloves, chopped
    5 thyme sprigs, or ¼ tsp. dried thyme
    4-5 marjoram sprigs (reserve some for garnish), or ¼ tsp. dried marjoram
    1 bay leaf
    3 tbsp. crème fraiche (or if desired, sour cream or yogurt) plus a little extra to garnish
    Salt and freshly ground pepper

    Method
    Heat the olive oil in a large preferably stainless steel saucepan or flameproof casserole.

    Add the onion and carrot and cook over a medium heat for 3-4 minutes, until just softened, stirring occasionally.

    Add the tomatoes, garlic and herbs (thyme, marjoram, bay leaf). (Remember to reserve your sprig for garnish.) Reduce the heat and simmer the soup covered for 30 minutes.

    Pass the soup through a food mill or press through a sieve into the pan. Stir in the cream (or sour cream or yogurt) and season with salt and pepper as needed. Reheat gently and serve garnished with a spoonful of crème fraiche, sour cream or yogurt, and a sprig of marjoram.

    Hors d’oeuvre: Seafood

    WONTON CRISP WITH CUCUMBER TOBIKO CAVIAR
    Copyright 2008, Robert Irvine, All rights reserved.

    Ingredients:

    1 to 4 liters canola oil as needed for frying or deep frying
    12 three-inch square wonton skins cut in half on the diagonal with a pizza cutter into 24 triangles
    1 English cucumber, peeled and cut fine brunoise (julienne then cut crosswise into 1/16th inch cubes)
    2 vine ripened tomatoes, seeds removed and cut brunoise (julienne then cut crosswise into 1/16th inch cubes)
    1 tablespoon mayonnaise
    Salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste
    2 tablespoons tobiko (green and orange caviar)
    24 very small parsley sprigs

    Method:
    Heat the oil in a pan or deep fryer to 375 degrees F as measured with a candy thermometer (or as recommended by the deep fryer manufacturer for similar foods). Fry the wonton skins until golden brown and drain on paper towels.

    Combine cucumber, tomatoes, and mayonnaise in a bowl and season with salt and pepper, to taste.

    Spoon a small amount on each fried wonton triangle and top with ¼ teaspoon tobiko caviar. Finish with a parsley sprig.

    Robert Irvine Schedule of Appearances:

    October 11th- Taping Ciao Italia! with Mary Ann Esposito at Mohegan Sun, CT
    www.mohegansun.com

    October 16th- Epcot Food & Wine Festival

    2:00 PM- “Kitchen Conversations”
    3:30 PM- Autographs

    5:45 PM- Culinary Demonstration
    6:30 PM- Autographs

    October 18th- Epcot Food & Wine Festival
    6:30 PM- “Party for the Senses”

    January 17th & 18th- Sun Wine Fest 2009 at Mohegan Sun
    www.SunWineFest.com

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    9 comments

    # Cindy on 09/12/08 at 14:38
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    Words of wisdom, for sure. Good habits are the spice of life! Let's cook up a new attitude, and enjoy the fruits of our labor. Bon Appetit!!
    # Laura Kearney on 09/15/08 at 13:00
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    Robert!

    You have totally blown me away with your comments about applying yourself, not avoiding chores, and only hurting oneself by not doing these things. I have a son that I have been trying to tell this exact same thing to for 18 years! He balked at doing chores, schoolwork, anything remotely related to work; all he wanted to do was play around.
    I think he is finally realizing how much he has hurt himself. He is smart, he is good at making things with his hands, but because of avoiding work (like, taking 5 or 6 hours to do dishes that could have taken 1 hour or less, he has seriously limited his options in additional schooling and work.
    We have been trying to encourage him to go into the military because he seriously needs the discipline. He's still undecided.
    I hope my son someday gets it together. Thanks for the encouragement. I'm going to show this to Joshua and see if he wakes up.

    Laura
    # cindy e [Member] Email on 09/17/08 at 08:41
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    Thank you for the words of motivation Chef! This week I had some particularly hard things to do at work. Every fiber of my being protested against what I had no alternative but get done. I read your blog, highlighted some specifically poignant lines and carried a copy with me as I went about these tasks. Each time the voice protested that we didn't want to do this, I read those lines, put my head down and dug in. It hasn't been an easy week, but you got me through it so far and I will "get 'er done"!
    # Jeff I Email on 09/17/08 at 21:20
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    Chef Robert,

    Whatever you said to get your own show, really doesn't matter to me. Your actions of completing mission after mission successfully,is what matters most. You've proved your mettle,and you deserve another show. Maybe this one you control where you go, and you go to children's, veterans', or active duty hospitals and bring them happiness through food. You can call it "Mission Happiness."
    # Rachaelle on 09/17/08 at 21:36
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    Robert HI! yes Mike and you are always right.I have yet to change, these things,im working on it.I want to become a chef like you.After Surgery im doing just that,if time permits.You and MIke are the 2 best chefs, there are period.You both got there with the same thoughts.I can only hope to keep trying to better myself, and live up to your caliber.You set the bar very High, and I hope to keep trying to Reach it.Your still the best.Period. I will always care about you. Rachaelle
    # Keely Email on 09/18/08 at 18:12
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    As a world class procrastinator, I read your post and heeded your advice, if only to see if you were right. You were right. I tackled a task that had been looming over me for days (ok, weeks) and it is amazing how simple it was to accomplish and move on. Not to mention the fact I had made it harder just by putting it off.
    Thanks Big Guy!
    # Leslie Sansone Williams on 09/20/08 at 19:56
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    Robert,

    Excellent "Words of Wisdom". Having pride in a "job well done" is everything. Doesn't matter if we receive any accolades at all. We know we did the best we could do.

    Appreciated this post. Have a great upcoming week!

    Leslie
    # Kay McCullough on 09/21/08 at 07:43
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    Thanks again, Chef Robert, for a pattern for living that applies to both young and old.

    You can teach me new tricks! ;)

    I am going to print this and tack it up by my new desk -- after 13 weeks of pre-surgery, surgery and post-surgery, I will be back to work at my old school and a NEW position of which I no very little. I have been quite apprehensive about it all, but realize that I can oly do my best each day with what I have learned my whole life and what I will be taught by caring and loving co-workers.

    I, too, am a procrastinator and so are my children.... We can all benefit from your words of wisdom and advice.

    Hope to catch a glimpse of you at EPCOT!

    Hello to Virginia!

    ---kay
    # Cynthia on 11/29/08 at 20:46
    I can think of at least 5 guys who, 25 years ago, said that they couldn't stand taking orders...and promptly joined the Marines. My brother Bobby being one. :-) Life is full of amusing ironies...

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